@Sip n' Match Thanks dear, well this the output of many trial and errors but and the end I reached to a logical and satisfactory conclusion. I always say “ I don’t lose either I win, or learn “ I attached a quote that I love it and it’s so meaningful too me when it comes to intimacy.

These are the four milestones I am considering to find in a partner, I am listing them by the sequence , 1. Connection: expectations about feelings of intimacy and understanding between you and your partner 2. Passion: Very important expectations about your mutual attraction and desire for each other! 3. Destiny⚠️⚠️ I believe your relationship is pre-destined to succeed and/or not that all relationships require hard work. 4. Immediacy: What are your beliefs about the pace of love? I expect that in healthy relationships people fall in love quickly I believe anything else beyond what I am considering to find, is impossible to to find someone. as I can't set expectations and raising the bar for potential partners, while I might have the shittiest personality and character