On season 1 episode 8 of Single, Sassy, and Sipping podcast, I spoke about Dating in Silence. I recently read an article, Dating in Silence Until You Can Love Out Loud by Kenny Erickson. He states how dating in silence gives you and the person a chance to form your own opinions about each other. Here is a snippet from the article,
“Impressing strangers becomes a habit, and because of that, we may miss out on good people. People that have good hearts and that genuinely want a forever love. We don’t get to see a deeper side of them because we don’t let them touch a deeper side of us. We push the good ones away because society told us to and we’re naive enough to listen…
Date in silence — so silently that nobody knows except you and your person. To the point that the two of you get to know one another well enough that you can form your own opinion and your own judgement before anyone else can. To the point that you feel confident defending your person. Date in silence, because if you give the world a chance, I promise it’s cold enough to put out any flame the two of you have burning.” by Kenny Erickson
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